My Hijab Story

Z&M are strong supporters of the hijab, since we strongly believe that the most precious things in life should always be taken care of and respected. However, we also realize that wearing the hijab is a true struggle - a struggle against the nafs, environment, society, and pretty much most things in life. That being said, we are very happy to share "My Hijab Story" - these are stories of people all around the world and their journey regarding hijab. Read on - perhaps you might find some words of wisdom, some encouragement, or even a gentle reminder!

*Do you have a story you want to share? If so, we'd love to hear it! Please email us at [email protected]
*Please note: It is not our place to judge anyone else or their religious standing. We simply state our views here and have no intention to force our views upon anyone else. 

"I was always intrigued by the hijab, even though I barely saw any women wearing it. There was something special about these women - something that made them stand out from the rest. I grew up in a modern home and environment, and although I loved the hijab, I always thought it wasn't for me. I was the typical "American Desi" and now that I look back, I was so deluded. There was a picture of life in my head that didn't really calculate much past my death, so when I began to realize the impermanence of this life, everything changed.  When my interest finally exceeded my fear, I decided to wear the hijab. I didn't put it on for many years, but finally at age 19 when I did, I put it on for good. My family and my parents were strictly against it, but I started a battle that was worth finishing. I am also lucky because although my parents are against the hijab, they haven't exactly forced their views upon me in a violent manner (except the occasional taunts and such, which is quite alright). I learned so many things from my hijab (and I still learn, so contrary to popular belief, hijabis are not perfect. haha). Hijab isn't just about covering yourself -- it's more than that, and eventually, it becomes a part of you. I'd say hijab is like a good friend of mine because it's got me covered, it protects me, and it even reminds me to stay in line. & I could probably go on forever, but I think the main point is that hijab is a strength - you just have to believe in it." -M, 23

"My hijab story has just barely begun. I started wearing hijab about a month ago and converted about two weeks ago. I have never felt happier or more at peace. For me, this is the right way. I have, however, run into a few problems from people around me. It has not been an easy transition in that way. I have been made fun of, stared at, and even had my job threatened. I refuse to let these things rule my life though. I know in my heart what is the right path for me and hijab is part of that path." -T, 35

"I love wearing the hijab. When I decided to put it on, there was nothing more to think about. To this day, I believe the hijab looks great on all women, and when I am wearing my hijab, I feel comfortable and safe." - K, 21

"Eid-Ul-Fitr 2011 was the day I realized how empowering and beautiful the hijab made me feel. My family and I were headed out for Eid prayers and instead of wearing the hijab in the car before getting inside the Mosque, I decided I would wear it properly (with the bandana and pins), and upon looking at myself in the mirror, I felt this sudden happiness inside of me. As we were heading out to a family friends place after, I really did not want to take the Hijab off because I felt so comfortable and empowered in it... But I was too scared of what others would say and took it off. 2 years later, I found myself really contemplating about the Hijab, and after watching many hijab tutorials, listening to many lectures, and getting advice from many people, I finally decided to make the Hijab a part of me. And without any doubt, Alhumdulillah, it is one of the best decisions I have ever made. Don't get me wrong, there are times when I wish I could flaunt my hair again, but keeping it covered is definitely worth it, because Allah's (swt) happiness overrides any others. So if you're thinking about wearing the Hijab, stop worrying about what others might think because Allah's (swt) perception of you is the most important of all." - A, 18.